Find Our Own Way
All of us can use the process that is found in recovery however we would all like to, and as long as we all are trying to live by this we will all eventually come to being able to find our own way. This is what works for us, and not necessarily what has worked for everyone else, and we'll be okay knowing that this is what works for us. This process allows for all of us to have an individual experience that we all share with everyone else who is in recovery. Living by this process that's found in recovery is what we all have in common with everyone who is in recovery, but we don't all have to do it exactly the same way, or do we have to have the exact same experience as everyone one else in order for it to work for us. There are no set rules, only guidelines on how the whole process works and the rest is left up to each individual and how we are going to use this process in our own lives, and as long as we are willing to live by this process all of us will always get the desired results that come from this even though we all have our own way of doing it. The process is meant to always be inclusive and never exclusive, and whenever we are told that this has to be done in a certain way in order to get the desired results we are being misguided and we could end up in big trouble if we believe that this is true. All of us are encouraged to find our own way, what works for each of us by using the same process that has worked for everyone else, and this will always work for all of us when we do.
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