[roverl0616]

One of the things that can be very crippling for us all that sometimes does happen, that there's usually never any real need for this to happen is when some of us will choose to go out of being in recovery and will return to whatever it is we were doing before we got here. This will be viewed as a set back and it usually is, it doesn't necessarily have to be one because for some of us it may be necessary for this to happen to them, but not for all of us. If this has happened and we now want to be in recovery as we all start over once again we'll want to learn something from having this happen, something about ourselves that we didn't know before that will make things easier and better for us so we can want to and are able to stay here in recovery from now on. If we can do this then having this happen was necessary, but if we can't then we've all just be wasting our time by having this happen and bound to keep on repeating having this happen over and over until finally, if ever, we're able to learn from this for ourselves something that we need that everyone else already has that's able to stay in recovery that we don't have.