One thing that all of us who have this problem struggle with is control, or lack of control. Needing and wanting to be in control is the result of the fact that our lives are out of control because of us having this problem. And that this causes all of us to have a strong sense of wanting to be in control. This is where we all started to get into trouble spiritually and when that happened some of us may have sensed it, but that doesn't stop any of us because of how great our need is for all of us wanting to be in control of something. This need and wanting to be in control is something that all of us bring with us to recovery and through being in recovery we all were able to solve this without us having to be in control. What we found is that it's actually better for us if we all let a power greater than us have control and all we do is to try to trust that things will turn out better for us by doing this then they would have by us being in control.