When all of us who have this problem are going along with whatever it is that this problem of ours is having us do, then we're all settling for less, and we all know it. All of us want so much more for ourselves, but none of us know how we can get that for ourselves. We can see it all around us. It seems so easy for everyone else to have this, but for us we all know we don't have it that we're missing it. What all of us who have this problem lack is a sense of self worth that comes so easily to everyone else who doesn't have our problem. All of us can get that same self worth for ourselves by all of us being in recovery. It gives that to us. Once we have self worth we all will then want what's best for ourselves. This is probably one of the greatest things that could ever happen to any of us by being in recovery. None of us will be willing to go along with cheating ourselves any longer by settling for less when we're all doing what none of us want to do that this problem of ours is causing all of us to do.